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The only communication assessment that tells you what to say and do — with anyone, in any relationship.

Take the communication assessment designed to address miscommunication — and discover why you act, feel, and think as you do.

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The problem

Some people act first, some feel first, and some people think first.

If we listen carefully, people tell us what language they're speaking…

Act first

“Come on, let's just get on with it.”

Feel first

“I don't know how I feel about that.”

Think first

“I need to think about that more.”

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If we don't recognise the language, we end up talking past each other.

One might want to connect, another wants to plan, and the last one already got started.

The solution

What is your primary Life Language?

A Life Language is a communication style with its own unique characteristics and a bias for action, feeling, or thinking. Everyone speaks all seven, but most people speak one more than the others. Recognising and switching to someone else's style is the critical step in becoming an effective communicator.

Mover

Movers are action-oriented, making things happen with passion and vision.

Doer

Doers are reliable and detail-focused, who meet needs with practical action.

Influencer

Influencers thrive on interaction and inspire others with their vision and warmth.

Responder

Responders are sensitive and nurturing, showing emotional depth and care.

Shaper

Shapers are analytical and strategic, bringing structure and direction.

Producer

Producers are resourceful and responsible, ensuring quality in their work.

Contemplator

Contemplators are reflective and thoughtful, providing insight and depth.

Your profile

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  • Develop communication skills

    Learn your communication style and identify keys to succeed for personal and professional development.

  • Motivate others

    Identify the words, cues, and drives to connect and collaborate with others helping you lead effectively.

  • Reduce friction

    Prevent unnecessary misunderstandings and learn the warning signs of distress in yourself and others.

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Anna Crowe

CEO of Crowe PR

“Life Languages is the most positive step anyone can take to improve on this age-old problem of communication. I cannot recommend a better program.”
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Sheriff's Department, Denton County, Texas

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Whether you're starting on your communication journey or looking to deepen your skills, we have a plan that fits.

Standard

For those looking to better understand themselves and the different communication styles.

$49

  • The Life Languages Chart: Your Life Languages in order of preference
  • Range & Gaps: Your current ability to switch to others Languages
  • Overall Intensity Level: Your drive to be heard
  • 4 Success Keys to understand, motivate, and validate each language
  • 2 Development Habits for personal growth
  • Career Information for leadership style, ideal roles and professions
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Advanced

For those looking to develop their career, lead others, and deeper personal insight.

$79

  • Everything in the Standard Profile plus…
  • Acceptance Level: How you view yourself
  • Interactive Style: Working alone or in groups
  • Internal Control Level: Disciplined vs. impulsive
  • Intrusion Level: Ability to handle interruptions or distractions
  • Projective Indicator: How important other's perceptions and opinions are
  • Learning Preferences: Physical, visual, or auditory
  • Communication Strategy Guide for each language
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